Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how people change when opportunities and wealth come their way. It’s a strange thing to witness—how success, which should be a blessing, sometimes transforms into pride and arrogance. Some people begin to act like they’re on a “God level,” as if having money or influence automatically makes them greater than everyone else.
I’ve seen how easy it is for people to forget where they came from. When the bank account is full, when doors open, and when recognition starts pouring in, humility often becomes the first thing to disappear. What’s left is arrogance—an attitude that looks down on others and a heart that no longer remembers the days of struggle.
But here’s what I’ve realized: true character isn’t built in poverty or in wealth—it’s revealed by how we handle both. A humble person, no matter how successful, will stay grounded and grateful. Meanwhile, an arrogant one will use blessings as weapons of pride.
I can’t help but think, I hope people like this don’t wait for God to humble them. Because when God does, the consequences can be devastating. That’s why I keep reminding myself and others: be humble today, even in the peak of success, greatness, and abundance. That way, if everything falls apart, you won’t fall too high or too hard. You’ll still be grounded.
For me, success should never intimidate—it should inspire. It should lift others up, not push them down. What’s the point of reaching the top if you lose the respect, love, and trust of the people around you?
At the end of the day, money or wealth is not what really makes people happy. It can’t buy genuine peace, love, or joy. And it certainly isn’t the ultimate measurement of success. To me, true success is found in gratitude, in the lives we touch, and in how we remain grounded no matter how high life allows us to rise.
✨ Reflection: Wealth and opportunities are temporary, but humility and kindness leave a lasting mark. So, if blessings come, may we carry them with grace.
